Month: December 2024

Whispering Hope: A Song for Christmas?

I have only a few memories from the year my family spent in the Philippines in 1955-56. I was 9 years old and I’m sure my memories were influenced by my mother, who I spent most of my time with…compared to my older brother (15) and sister (18), who enjoyed the freedom to explore a new country without too much supervision. I have shared a few of my memories in this blog. You can read them here:

https://marykisner.com/this-monkey-was-not-my-friend/

https://marykisner.com/trying-to-sneak-into-air-conditioning/

https://marykisner.com/a-christmas-surprise-in-1955/

https://marykisner.com/camel-ride-in-egypt-in-1956/

For some reason, today I was reminded of the experience of carolers coming to our door in the week before Christmas…1955 in the Philippines. I probably watched too many Hallmark movies this week where groups of folks were wandering the streets and neighborhoods in their fictional towns singing Christmas carols. If the snow was drifting down in the movie, the songs were about Dreaming of a White Christmas, and sleigh bells ringing.

I thought back to the songs I heard outside our door in the Philippines. You can be sure there were no drifting snow flakes or sleigh bells on horses on our street! The weather was warm and sultry…not cold and snowy! We heard traditional religious carols, like O Little Town of Bethlehem and Away in a Manger. The most common song…in my 9 year old memory…was Whispering Hope! I don’t recall ever hearing that song before or since…especially at Christmas. I barely remembered the tune.

Time to do a little research! First, I looked up the history of the song. It was written in 1868 by Septimus Winner (1827-1902). This article, by Pam Griffin, summarizes his life as follows:

STORY BEHIND THE SONG: From folk tunes to jail to ‘Whispering Hope’

“What could the comforting hymn “Whispering Hope” have to do with well-known little ditties such as “Listen to the Mockingbird,” “Where, Oh Where Has My Little Dog Gone?” and “Ten Little Indians?” They were all written by Alice Hawthorne, one of the pseudonyms used by the 19th century songwriter Septimus Winner. The famous poet, composer and violinist, born in 1827 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, was the seventh child of Joseph Eastburn Winner and Mary Ann Hawthorne, a relative of Nathanial Hawthorne.

Winner, a self-taught musician, did study violin briefly around 1853 with Leopold Meignen, a former bandmaster in Napoleon’s army and a composer and conductor. Winner could play a variety of instruments, including the guitar and banjo, and became proficient in the violin by the age of 20. After graduating Philadelphia’s Central High School, he opened a music shop and gave lessons on a number of instruments and performed locally with the Cecillian Music Society and the Philadelphia Brass Band.

From 1845 to 1854, Winner and his brother, Joseph, formed a music publishing business, Winner & Shuster, which Winner continued with various partners and names until 1902. During this time, he wrote or edited 200 volumes of music for more than 20 instruments and produced more than 2,000 arrangements for violin and piano plus more than 1,500 easy arrangements for a number of instruments.

Winner, who died in Philadelphia from a heart attack in 1902 at the age of 75, was a frequent contributor to Graham’s Magazine, then edited by Edgar Allen Poe, and was the founder of Philadelphia’s Musical Fund Society. He was inducted into the Songwriters Hall of Fame in 1970.” By Pam Griffin (pgriffin@thedestinlog.com)

So, how about that! Next, I looked up the lyrics of the song. That helped me understand how it could fit into the Christmas spirit and the recent end of World War II. In 1955, we weren’t too far away from the end of that conflict. I found two versions of the lyrics…the original and a second version that was published as a hymn.

Original lyrics:

Lyrics published as a hymn:

Sheet Music

Finally, I went to musicnotes.com to find the easy piano version of sheet music for Whispering Hope, thinking maybe I could take it with me to our Christmas gathering at our daughter’s house. My grandson might be able to play the tune on the piano. It cost only $5 to print a copy from that website.

So, that’s the story of the song, Whispering Hope, from my memory in 1955. I found a recording of the song by Anne Murray on her album, Amazing Grace: Inspirational Favorites and Classic Hymns. I purchased the album on iTunes and will enjoy the song this season! I’ll add this song to my Christmas playlist.

Follow up

My grandson, Ben, tried to plink out the melody but he had no reference…he had never heard the song. He tried to quickly find the song on his phone so he could hear it. Not much luck! I also had trouble trying to fit the lyrics into the notes on the sheet music. He eventually lost interest in trying to help me…Christmas activities won the day! I’ll have to tackle this myself at my own keyboard.

That’s OK. He tried to help!

This weekend I’ll spend some time with my brother and Lita (his wife is from the Philippines). She should remember that Christmas long ago. Hopefully, she will remember that song too!

Merry Christmas from Mary and Bert!

Happy Birthday to My Dad

This Sunday I’d like to wish my Dad a Happy Birthday! He would be 111 years old (he made it to almost 99, so he hasn’t been gone too long!) I thought I’d share with you the story he wrote as he reflected on his childhood in his later years. It certainly explained why over the years he didn’t want us to make a big fuss over his birthday. Enjoy the story with me!

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BIRTHDAYS

My birthday was never celebrated. My Dad gave me a rational explanation in 1917 when I was four years old but the idea never reached me through the fog of psychological and theological mystery involved with the arrival of a baby sister Ruth in October. Sister June joined the family in the month of June when I was six and sister Lois, again in October, just before I was nine. It seemed clear to me and surely evident to Dad that birth events delivered girls to our family.

Dad and I were both born too close to the birthday of baby Jesus. Jesus was a boy but it was clear to me that his birth was one of a kind and not to be generally expected. Dad’s birthday was December 26 and mine was December 22. Probably our birthdays got lost in all the fuss about the baby Jesus celebration. The only firm conclusion I seemed able to make was that birthday celebrations were girl-things and that boys like Dad and me were out of the loop.

In successive years that conclusion was confirmed in practice. At supper on the 22nd mother would suddenly announce that the day was important in her life. After some moments while we all kept on eating and mother mused, she would say to her daughters: “Oh yes, now I remember. December 22 was the date Paul was born.”

Then Dad, also speaking to the girls, would continue: “Santa always helps with Paul’s birthday present. In fact, I think I saw his name on a package under the tree. Should Paul get it now so we can all see?”

All the little sisters would of course squeal “yes.” I would go into the cold, unheated parlor where the Christmas tree was always placed, choose a package with my name on it and come back to the supper table to open it. Usually, it was something I knew I was going to get because for weeks I had watched Mother making it in her spare time. Then the little sisters would plead for a chance to also get packages, but Dad would insist they must wait until the day after the day after tomorrow to see what Santa had brought for them. There was always some whining, but on balance the scheme worked.

Right after sister number 3 arrived, Dad and I seemed to recognize a mutual awareness. “Birthdays are for girls.” In our mature years that assumption has served well for both of us by freeing us from tedious secretarial tasks and the cost of mailing commercially produced, generic messages to friends and relatives.

Did I have a birthday, or did I have a diluted Christmas? When I wondered about it, Dad helped me see that his situation was even worse than mine. By the 26th there was never anything left under the Christmas tree. Dads’ birthday party always had a special name…“clean up time.” Paul W. Bixby

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We made sure to celebrate his birthday with as many kids and grandkids as we could. Luca helped him blow out the candles at his 95th party.

My Dad with his siblings. He was proud to be a big brother to them all!

So Happy Birthday Dad! We miss you so much!

What to do when the kitchen is off limits!

Yes! It’s that time again! For at least a week each December the kitchen is tied up with Bert’s marathon cookie baking! He makes about 170 pounds of dough and bakes about 140 dozen chocolate chip cookies. Of course, the refrigerator in the kitchen, the extra refrigerator in the basement and various tubs in the garage are packed with dozens of eggs, butter, flour, sugar and chocolate chips for a week before the mixing and baking begins.

Bert has been doing this for the last 60+ years so this is just a normal December for me. You can see the recipe and more photos in the two other posts I wrote about his yearly project:

https://marykisner.com/berts-yearly-cookie-marathon/ and

https://marykisner.com/kitchen-tied-up-with-cookies-and-bread/

Before I got out of the way this time, I planned ahead and made a batch of chicken salad and egg salad and got a loaf of bread out of the freezer so we could grab food for lunches around all the baking activities! There is no counter or table space available once he gets started!

While the kitchen is off limits for any baking I want to do, I took a few pictures of my ongoing projects in other spaces in the house.

In the dining room I’m keeping my microgreens growing. This batch of sunflowers is about ready to cut. They are not very thick because many of the seeds did not sprout. The seed was saved from last year and it is probably time to order some new seed. The peas (on the right) need a few more days to fill out.

In my sewing room, I have 4 greyhound coats to finish before Christmas. I have a TV to entertain me with the latest Christmas Hallmark movies!

In my sewing room, I also have my beads stored ready to finish a few bracelets. Can you see the second shelf down with flat boxes? All my beads fit in those 6 flat boxes! Of course, when I want to work with them, I lay them out on the bed and choose the beads I need. Work on the bracelets has to happen at my desk in the office.

In the office, I can write my posts OR I can make bracelets! Such a multipurpose desk with a good light!

Here’s the latest bracelet I finished today!

So, you can see I have many choices of things to do when I can’t get into the kitchen! I can always do laundry around my projects…but you’ll seldom see me choosing to clean or dust or vacuum! Just too many fun projects to distract me! Haha! Enjoy!

Making Another Gift Box with Recycled Greeting Cards

In the fall, we start receiving packets of greeting cards from various organizations…usually with an appeal for donations. Each packet ight have 4-6 cards with envelopes. By December, I may have accumulated over 100 assorted Christmas cards. Some are quite unusual; others are just tacky. Most of the time I don’t even send Christmas cards because I write a family letter that really doesn’t need a separate card. However, I have trouble just throwing all these cards away.

Of course, in the spring we get another pile of cards along with a renewed request for donations. These cards are for birthday greetings, get well and sympathy cards. I don’t send very many cards in the first place, but now I have another pile of cards to store.

I’m always on the look out for craft projects that would use recycled greeting cards. I do reach for an occasional small gift bag, so I’m often checking Pinterest for new ideas.

I’ve already written about using origami paper, calendar pages and greeting cards in the past. You may remember the folded paper gift boxes from origami paper…

https://marykisner.com/how-about-a-folded-paper-gift-box/

From the pile of calendar pictures I had accumulated, I made a bunch of very small gift bags:

https://marykisner.com/make-a-small-gift-bag-in-a-flash/

I also attempted to use up some Greyhound calendar pictures and pretty greeting cards by making placemats:

https://marykisner.com/recycling-greeting-cards-into-a-placemat/

https://marykisner.com/recycling-greeting-cards-into-a-placemat/

All of those ideas were great, but I needed a new idea! Here are some samples of the latest gift boxes…two for Christmas and two that could be for birthdays. To save space, I’m thinking I could make these and store them flat until needed.

Making These Gift Boxes

To make these boxes you will need:

4 greeting cards; 1 sheet of cardstock, about 12″ square; 4 pieces of 1/4″ ribbon (about 14″ long each); Ruler; multipurpose glue (I used B-7000); Single hole punch; Scissors.

The base of these boxes is a single sheet of cardstock, about 12″ square. They come in a tablet of solid or decorative colors. They can be found at Michaels Craft Stores, JoAnn Fabric Stores or any craft store that caters to scrapbooking crafters.

First, I chose four cards that would go together…a floral theme.

I pulled out a sheet of decorative green cardstock…white on the reverse side. The decorative green side will the inside of the box. The cardstock was not exactly 12″ x 12″ so instead of 4″ squares I had to make them 3 1/2″ squares. Here’s how I measured out the template:

I trimmed off the top and side, then cut away the corner blocks. I saved a corner block to use as a template to mark the greeting cards. Here is what it looks like after cutting it apart:

Here is the reverse, which will be the inside of the box:

Next, I used my ruler to help me fold the four sides up:

One of the corner pieces you cut out can be your template to draw the cut line on the pictures on the cards. Here’s an example from the snowman card I’ll use in the Christmas box:

Once you have all four cards/pictures cut, place them on the outside of the base cardstock, turning the pictures so they are right side up when you fold it into a box. Glue each picture down with a quick drying glue…I used my jewelry glue (B-7000 multipurpose glue).

When the glue is dry, punch holes in the top corners of each side:

Using a 14″ piece of 1/4″ skinny ribbon, tie each corner together to make the box.

This project looked like it would be a good way to use up my stash of greeting cards…these four boxes used 16 cards! If I waited to tie them into boxes, I think I could store them flat until I needed a box. I’ll add this project to my list of ways to make gift boxes! Give it a try! Could be a project for kids and grandkids and you could recycle all those cards that come in the mail! Enjoy!